Destinations

Destination weddings in the USA: a guide for your guests

A destination wedding in the USA skips passports and long-haul flights: Southern charm in Charleston, Savannah and New Orleans, live music in Nashville, wine country in Napa, mountains in Asheville, Sedona and Lake Tahoe, and Maui for an island weekend.

9 destinations covered · 108 activities · 108 restaurants

Where to get married in the USA, from your guests' point of view

Charleston

Charleston, South Carolina · best March to June, September to November

Pastel townhouses, cobbled lanes, Lowcountry cooking and beaches 20 minutes away. Downtown is compact and very walkable.

  • Getting there: Charleston International (CHS) is 20 minutes from downtown.
  • Car needed: Not usually
  • Activity prices: Mid-range
  • Group favorites: historic horse-drawn carriage tour; lowcountry food walking tour; fort Sumter ferry and tour

Things to do · Weekend itinerary · Where to stay · Welcome dinner

Maui

Wailea, Kapalua & Paia · best April to May, September to November

Volcano sunrises, the Road to Hana, snorkeling with turtles and whales in winter. West Maui is still recovering from the 2023 Lahaina fire, so please visit respectfully.

  • Getting there: Kahului airport (OGG) is 30 minutes from Wailea and about 1 hour from Kapalua.
  • Car needed: Mostly yes, or book drivers
  • Activity prices: Mid-range
  • Group favorites: road to Hana guided tour; haleakalā sunrise tour; molokini crater snorkel trip

Things to do · Weekend itinerary · Where to stay · Welcome dinner

Nashville

Nashville, Tennessee · best April to May, September to October

Live music every night, hot chicken, honky-tonks and a growing food scene. Nashville is easy to reach, walkable downtown, and guests never run out of things to do.

  • Getting there: Nashville International (BNA) is about 15 minutes from downtown, with direct flights from most US cities.
  • Car needed: Mostly yes, or book drivers
  • Activity prices: Budget-friendly
  • Group favorites: grand Ole Opry show; broadway honky-tonk and live music pub crawl; nashville food tour with hot chicken

Things to do · Weekend itinerary · Where to stay · Welcome dinner

Asheville

Asheville & the Blue Ridge · best April to June, September to early November

Blue Ridge Mountains, the Biltmore Estate, waterfalls and one of America's best small-city food and beer scenes. The area is still recovering from Hurricane Helene in 2024, and most favorites have reopened.

  • Getting there: Asheville Regional (AVL) is 20 minutes from downtown. Charlotte (CLT) is about 2 hours.
  • Car needed: Mostly yes, or book drivers
  • Activity prices: Mid-range
  • Group favorites: biltmore Estate visit; asheville brewery tour; downtown food tour

Things to do · Weekend itinerary · Where to stay · Welcome dinner

Lake Tahoe

North & South Lake Tahoe · best June to September, December to March for snow

A giant alpine lake with granite beaches, pine forests and mountain towns. Summer means boats and hiking, winter means skiing.

  • Getting there: Reno-Tahoe (RNO) is about 1 hour away. Sacramento (SMF) is 2 hours.
  • Car needed: Mostly yes, or book drivers
  • Activity prices: Mid-range
  • Group favorites: emerald Bay cruise; clear kayak or paddleboard tour; heavenly Gondola ride

Things to do · Weekend itinerary · Where to stay · Welcome dinner

Napa Valley

Napa, Yountville & St. Helena · best April to June, September to November

Thirty miles of vineyards from Napa town to Calistoga, Michelin dining in Yountville and hot springs at the north end.

  • Getting there: San Francisco (SFO) and Oakland (OAK) are about 1h15 away. Sonoma County airport (STS) is 40 minutes.
  • Car needed: Not usually
  • Activity prices: Pricier
  • Group favorites: napa Valley Wine Train with lunch; napa wine tour with three tastings; bike and wine tour

Things to do · Weekend itinerary · Where to stay · Welcome dinner

New Orleans

New Orleans, Louisiana · best February to May, October to November

Jazz on every corner, Creole cooking, oak-lined streetcar routes and bayous just outside town. Second lines are part of many weddings here.

  • Getting there: Louis Armstrong International (MSY) is 25 minutes from the French Quarter.
  • Car needed: Not usually
  • Activity prices: Budget-friendly
  • Group favorites: swamp and bayou boat tour; french Quarter history walking tour; ghost and voodoo walking tour

Things to do · Weekend itinerary · Where to stay · Welcome dinner

Sedona

Sedona, Arizona · best March to May, September to November

Red rock buttes, desert sunsets, vortex hikes and dark night skies. The Grand Canyon is a day trip away.

  • Getting there: Phoenix Sky Harbor (PHX) is about 2 hours by car. Flagstaff (FLG) is 45 minutes.
  • Car needed: Mostly yes, or book drivers
  • Activity prices: Mid-range
  • Group favorites: red rock jeep tour; vortex and meditation tour; grand Canyon day trip

Things to do · Weekend itinerary · Where to stay · Welcome dinner

Savannah

Savannah, Georgia · best March to May, October to November

Twenty-two leafy squares, Spanish moss, Southern food and Tybee Island beach half an hour away.

  • Getting there: Savannah/Hilton Head International (SAV) is 20 minutes from the historic district.
  • Car needed: Not usually
  • Activity prices: Budget-friendly
  • Group favorites: hop-on hop-off trolley tour; historic squares walking tour; ghost tour of America's most haunted city

Things to do · Weekend itinerary · Where to stay · Welcome dinner

At a glance

CharlestonMauiNashvilleAshevilleLake TahoeNapa ValleyNew OrleansSedonaSavannah
Best seasonMarch to June, September to NovemberApril to May, September to NovemberApril to May, September to OctoberApril to June, September to early NovemberJune to September, December to March for snowApril to June, September to NovemberFebruary to May, October to NovemberMarch to May, September to NovemberMarch to May, October to November
Car needed?Not usuallyMostly yesMostly yesMostly yesMostly yesNot usuallyNot usuallyMostly yesNot usually
Activity pricesMid-rangeMid-rangeBudget-friendlyMid-rangeMid-rangePricierBudget-friendlyMid-rangeBudget-friendly
Relaxed activities756554537
Foodie activities334336333
Adventure activities354564464
Full-day trips121215121

Good to know for guests in the USA

  • Currency: US dollar (USD).
  • Tipping: Expected: 18 to 22% in restaurants. Large groups often get an automatic gratuity.
  • Dinner time: Dinner usually from 6 to 9 pm. Popular restaurants book up weeks ahead.
  • Group dinners: Ask for a private dining room or a prix fixe menu for groups over 10.
  • Power plugs: Type A and B plugs, 120 V.
  • Entry rules: Passport and visa rules depend on nationality. Ask guests to check their own government's travel advice early.

Questions couples ask

Where is the best place for a destination wedding in the USA?

It depends on your guests. Best for relaxed guests: Charleston (7 relaxed activities on our list). Best for foodie guests: Napa Valley (6 foodie activities on our list). Best for adventure guests: Lake Tahoe (6 adventure activities on our list). Easiest on guest budgets: Savannah (activities skew cheaper than elsewhere in the country). Easiest without a car: Charleston (guests can get around on foot, by boat or by taxi). Best for guests staying longer: Napa Valley (5 full-day trips nearby).

When is the best time for a wedding in the USA?

Charleston: March to June, September to November. Maui: April to May, September to November. Nashville: April to May, September to October. Asheville: April to June, September to early November. Lake Tahoe: June to September, December to March for snow. Napa Valley: April to June, September to November. New Orleans: February to May, October to November. Sedona: March to May, September to November. Savannah: March to May, October to November.

Do wedding guests need to tip in the USA?

Expected: 18 to 22% in restaurants. Large groups often get an automatic gratuity.

What time is dinner in the USA?

Dinner usually from 6 to 9 pm. Popular restaurants book up weeks ahead.

What currency and plugs do guests need in the USA?

US dollar (USD). Type A and B plugs, 120 V.

What should guests budget for a wedding in the USA?

Flights and accommodation are usually the biggest costs, followed by meals and activities. Our free destination wedding guest budget calculator adds it all up per person and per day.

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